Another Check Up
Another trip to Texas Children's in the books! We left Haddie, Ruger, and Davis with Derek's parents to take Sunley to Houston for an echo, X-ray, holter, and consultation with her cardiologist…
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OUTCOME - noun - the way a thing turns out; a consequence.
We have finally concluded our lemonade stands for 2024! And although we had much fewer stand hosts this year, I'm so pleased to announce that thanks to so many generous donors, some of which donated large amounts anonymously, Write With Light Project will be donating ...
Read MoreMad at the Mountains
I'm mad at the mountains. What usually fills me with wonder and praise now looks like something I'd love to see destroyed. Not really – they're still pretty beautiful. But anger and wonder can coexist. Suffering and delight. Grief and joy. So I can love looking at these mountains and still be mad at them.
Kind of like how a mother feels when her kid is bullied, and she wants to punch the bully in the face – that's kind of how I feel about the Rocky Mountains. We'll call it my “Rocky Rage.” They are beautiful, but they betrayed my kid, so I kind of want to drive up there with a front loader, and stone by stone tear…
Read MoreFun in Fontan
Another great check up in the books for Sunley Summit! This trip had 3 days of tests and check ups in Houston, and Sunley was such a trooper. We try to make the trip special. I like to say “We put the fun in Fontan,” and I'm still waiting for the Fontan Go Clinic to adopt this slogan because I think it's fantastic.
We left last Sunday and spent the night with the Blankenships. It's always good to…
Read More1 year post Fontan Check Up
We try hard to make these trips to Houston fun for Sunley and for the siblings left at home. I left our three heart-healthy kiddos with a super fun babysitter and a freezer full of yummy (junk) food, and we booked a hotel in Houston that has a pool, which was Sunley’s only request. We got to the hospital around 10:30 am Tuesday morning, and we were hoping to run into our buddy, Oliver, who also had appointments that day, but unfortunately the timing never worked out with their down time between doctor visits. Sunley was very nervous about the “big stickers” that are applied during…
Read MoreUpcoming Check Up
Sunley has a check up next week in Houston, and while we expect good news, Derek and I both can't help but brace ourselves every time. Strangely, it's not the same emotion as worry. We are just "girded," for lack of a better term; Armed in case of battle. Please pray with us that there are…
Read More1 Year Heartiversary
One year today since the Fontan. A year full of pink lips, Jiu Jitsu classes, lemonade stands, and lots and lots of ordinary days, which sparkle the brightest. We prepared for this surgery since well before Sunley was born, and that lead up didn't wear off immediately. We chose the surgical path for our unborn baby a month before she was born, knowing that we could get 3 or 4 years in and then have a failed Fontan. It’s a huge leap of faith that we made with the guidance of the most experienced doctors in the country. And it was either that (surgeries) or let her go. And I have to say, even if her Fontan had failed and she had passed away, I would still have been glad we made this choice. That’s a very deep and extensive topic that I won’t hash out right now. The whole experience changed my life in so many amazing ways. The enemy tried to shake me up and even break me, but what he didn’t know is that I’m a freaking glow stick…
Read MoreLook What He Has Done
Look what He has done. Last month, we took the whole family on a trip to Houston specifically so the kids could be part of the delivery of the check from last year’s first annual fundraiser. Thanks to all of our selfless donors and lemonade stand hosts, we were able to write a check to the Fontan Go program for…
Read MoreGod of Daniel
I’ve lost track of the exact timing of everything, but for the past 2 weeks, our 3 youngest kiddos have been dealing with some kind of respiratory virus. Davis got over it pretty quickly, and mostly just had a runny nose. Sunley almost had to go to the hospital for low saturations and difficulty breathing, but she came through it without hospital support. Ruger has had a very hard time…
Read MoreHow is Sunley Doing?
"How is Sunley doing?" I never know how much information to give when people ask. Do they want a short answer? The whole schpiel?…
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