Day 10 in the hospital, 9 days post-op!

Another good day, with discharge on the horizon! Sunley woke up feeling terrible. She was super lethargic and pale, and had some tummy issues that were causing her a lot of pain. She is woken up each morning when it’s time for a finger prick, so that’s a rough way to start your days anyway. We had planned to do PT at 9 with Candace, and she was not having it today. She rode the bike a little bit, but didn’t want to participate in any games or play with any toys. Poor Candace has only gotten to work with Sunley on her bad days! Hannah and Denzel got the good days. We brought her back to her room, and she fell right to sleep for about 3 and a half hours. After that, though, she seemed to be much better, so I don’t know what it was, but it was relatively short-lived.

The biggest news of the day is that Sunley is NOODLE FREE! Surprising to everyone, her chest tube output dropped significantly, enough to go ahead and pull the tube. It was terrible, but it’s over now. The only thing Sunley has on her now is her pulse ox probe and her IV. Her chest Xray showed a little improvement on the tiny pneumothorax that they saw, so no real concerns there.

After she started feeling better, we went on several walks, including exploring the skybridges, and played in the Child Life playroom for a bit. Our next door neighbor went home today, and we expect (loosely expect) to be closely behind. I guess we’ll just be watching her numbers over the next couple of days to make sure we go home on a balanced amount of diuretics. They will be weaned outpatient by her usual cardiologist.

Unfortunately, taking oral meds has become just a really difficult task. Sunley had to go back on potassium today, the worst oral med known to heart toddlers, and immediately threw up SO much when she took it. She has thrown up every single time she’s had potassium. So now, we are giving the tiniest bit every 20 minutes until the whole dose is up. And even that is such a fight.

This entire Fontan recovery has been so incredibly draining, and I doubt that being home will actually be easier at first. But we are so grateful that everything has progressed without any major complications. Sunley is ready to go home and be with her siblings. I’m ready to go literally anywhere for 24 hours by myself and sleep, but that won’t be happening for a while. Seriously though, I am looking forward to all four of my babies being in the same place again. Davis, the youngest, is especially having a hard time being away from her Mommy and Daddy. I recorded a looping video of me singing some of her favorite lullabies that G (my mom) plays for her at night to get her to go to sleep.

Derek and I have been switching off going home each night to tuck in the kids before coming back to the hospital to sleep. It’s been really great for the big 2 kids, but for Davis, I actually think it’s made it harder. She will NOT go to sleep when we put her down, and she’s been sleeping in a big bed with her sister or grandmother every night that we’ve been gone. Not sure how that’s going to play out when we get home.

Sunley’s saturations have been around 94 to 95 today, but she is still dipping towards the end of the really long walks. It will definitely take me a little while to get used to her new numbers, and to understand what’s ok for her and what’s not. It’s always overwhelming at first, but we’ll find our new groove eventually.

After her noodle removal, Sunley was finally able to give me a good, wrap-around, normal hug! It was so very sweet, but I also felt for the first time how skinny she has gotten. She definitely looks thin, but to feel the “lack of squish” was so sad. We added pediasure yesterday, so hopefully I’ll get back some of that baby softness.

This recovery reminds me a lot of her recovery after her first surgery, the PA Band (although that one was much longer, if things this time go as planned). The whole recovery was about finding the balance of diuretics, and Sunley lost so much weight, most of her hair, and just looked rough. Although, I didn’t really realize how rough she looked until months later, looking back at pictures. This admission is much worse, even if it’s shorter, because TODDLER, and because she has, ya know, real life outside the hospital to which she can compare!

Hoping for another good update tomorrow!